Is your child’s behaviour getting you down?
We’re here to help!
Children's behaviour looks very different depending on the age and stage they are at. Understanding the developmental context and reasons behind a child's behaviour are often the first steps towards finding a way through it.
Delivered via Zoom, our behaviour consultations provide personalised support to help you navigate the challenges you're facing, whatever they are and whatever age or stage your child is at. Our parent consultations are personalised to fit your individual circumstances, ensuring that you receive the specific support and strategies you need.
You're not alone in your struggles, and there's no judgement in any situation you find yourself in. Our consultants provide a compassionate and supportive environment to explore your concerns and find effective solutions.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
There's no "right" time to ask
There's no right or wrong moment to ask for support, and no particular level your child's behaviour has to reach before booking a consultation. What matters is how things feel for you and your family and whether some guidance, reassurance or practical support would help.
Some families come to us once things feel overwhelming and hard to manage day to day. Others get in touch much earlier, wanting advice before small concerns turn into bigger ones. Both are equally good reasons to reach out.
Signs a consultation could help:
Behaviour that's persistent, escalating, or affecting family life more broadly
Behaviour at school that's raising concerns with teachers or other carers
A sense that nothing you try is working, or that you're running out of ideas
Behaviour that feels out of step with what you'd expect for your child's age
Wanting an impartial, knowledgeable perspective to talk things through with
You don't need to be in crisis to get in touch. Often, the most useful support happens early, before patterns have had the chance to set in.
GETTING STARTED
Where do you even start?
Everyone has an opinion on children's behaviour, from well-meaning relatives to parenting accounts with millions of followers, and a lot of it contradicts itself. One camp says ignore the tantrum; the next says never let it go unaddressed. One says stick to the naughty step; another says ditch consequences altogether and focus on connection. No wonder so many parents end up second-guessing every decision.
Our consultants cut through the noise. We draw on real developmental science and years of hands-on experience with real families, not whichever parenting trend happens to be loudest this month, to help you find an approach that actually fits your child's temperament and your family's values.
Whether you've read every book and tried every method, or you genuinely don't know where to start, we'll help you find your way through it.
COMMON CHALLENGES
Every child is different, and behaviour challenges come in many forms. We support families dealing with:
Common challenges we help with
Tantrums & meltdowns
Understanding the difference
between the two
Hitting, biting, and aggression
Towards parents, siblings, other
children, or themselves
Defiance
Refusing to follow instructions and generally not listening
Emotional dysregulation
Children who struggle to manage big feelings and don’t have the tools to express themselves
Home vs school differences
Behaviour that is very different
in each setting
Additional needs
Including ADHD, autism, and sensory processing differences
WHO IS THIS FOR
What ages does this relate to?
18 months+
Preparing to start or showing early signs
Toddlers
Feeling stuck or navigating a specific challenge
School age & beyond
Managing regression or later training — no judgement
Behaviour difficulties in school-age children can be more complicated and may have several causes. Common concerns include aggression, refusing to cooperate, conflict between siblings or peers, and behaving very differently at home and at school.
If you're not sure whether what you're seeing is typical for your child's age, our consultants can help you understand the developmental context and find the right approach.
WHAT TO EXPECT
What happens during the consultation?
1 - We get to know your situation
Your consultant takes the time to understand your child, your routine, and what you have already tried.
2 - We work through it together
Together you will work out what is happening and why, and develop a clear approach you can put into practice straight away.
3 - You leave with a plan
Depending on the package you choose, your consultation may include a bespoke written plan to take away, or a structured conversation that gives you everything you need to move forward with confidence.
All consultations take place via Zoom and are tailored entirely to your situation.
Choose your plan
The Signature Behaviour Consultation
£100
Consultation Only
Best for: Parents wanting expert advice and practical strategies to better understand and manage challenging behaviours in one focused session.
The Bespoke Behaviour Plan
£165
Consultation + Personalised Written Plan
Best for: Families wanting tailored behaviour strategies and a personalised action plan specific to their child and family dynamics.
The Complete Behaviour Package
£225
Consultation + Bespoke Plan + Follow-up Support + Your Guide to Behaviour and Emotions (downloadable webinar)
Best for: Families wanting tailored strategies, practical tools and ongoing guidance to create a calmer, more connected family life.
If you want any more information about our parent consultations before you book please do get in touch, book a free 15 minute discovery call, or listen to our podcast episode all about what happens at a parent consultation - Newborn to Teen and Everything in Between.
Once you have selected your option and clicked the purchase button you will be taken to an information form where you can tell us all about what’s happening and let us know your availability. We'll then be in touch to confirm your appointment time.
If you choose option three, once your booking is received you'll receive a copy of 'Your Guide to Behaviour & Emotions' to help you prepare for your consultation.
We can't wait to meet you and start working on this together.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Child behaviour consultations are personalised sessions where parents can discuss their child's behavioural challenges and receive tailored strategies to help improve their child’s behaviour.
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A child behaviour specialist can provide expert guidance on managing behavioural issues, offering strategies that are specific to your child's needs.
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Topics can include, for example, tantrums, meltdowns, hitting, biting, and refusing to follow direction as well as general behaviour management strategies.
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Yes. We support families of children with a wide range of additional needs, and our approach is always tailored to the individual child. We take into account neurodivergence, sensory differences, and any specific factors that are relevant to how your child experiences and expresses their behaviour.
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This is more common than you might think, and it tells us something important about the context in which the behaviour is occurring. A consultation in this situation focuses on understanding the school environment, what triggers the behaviour there, and how you can work alongside the school to create a more consistent approach.
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Yes, and consistency between carers is often one of the most important factors in making progress. We will always discuss how to communicate the approach to the other adults in your child's life so that everyone is responding in the same way.
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Yes. Many of the families we work with have already been through the GP, health visitor, or CAMHS route. Our role is not to replace those services but to provide practical, day-to-day parenting support that those services often do not have time to offer. A consultation is a useful addition to, not a replacement for, any professional support your child is already receiving.
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Prepare by noting specific behaviours you want to discuss, any patterns you've observed, and questions you may have. It's helpful to give as much detail as possible in the initial consultation questionnaire to help the consultant start forming ideas and strategies in advance of your call.
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